Well, my family got a little smaller in the last year 😦 (DUH) So, obviously, the fam is a little adrift. Mom was the anchor, the simple common denominator. It’s hard to row back to the middle when your island is no longer there. Sometimes, you just don’t want to. Part of me wants to let the rest of my family row off into their own oceans, but the other part of me doesn’t want them to go too far. I love my family. They drive me up the freakin walls, but I love them. How are the holidays going to work now? We all went to Mom’s for the holidays. Now where do we go? It’s always been, “Do YOUR holiday with YOUR [immediate] family and we will all congregate at Mom’s on such-and-such-a-date”. Um, now what?
For Thanksgiving, I think we’re congregating at my house. I’m the mid-point (ha! guess the world DOES revolve around me :-p – please, let me at least keep my wifto sense of humor…). I certainly don’t mind hosting, but it’s just not going to be the same. HOW do you fix that? And that’s just Thanksgiving. How the fuck are we gonna do xmas??? I hate xmas anyway, now, it’s just a painful reminder of traditions long gone
Oy, enough with the maudlin…
My friends are fantastic. Very supportive. Understanding.
I have plans to have a Friend’s Thanksgiving, the weekend before. To me, that will be merry and enjoyable. Again, not that I don’t love my family, but I can’t see the Connor Family Thanksgiving being all that “happy”.
I totally don’t know what to talk about without fixating on what I’ve/we’ve lost.
I guess, to sum up, WRT Family: the future is uncertain. WRT Friends: thank the gods I have them. I think I’d have flown apart by now without them…